After 21 years, we’ve packed our bags and the rest of our household for a town in the Berkshires.
I picked the location even though the weather isn’t as mild, the tax rate is higher, utilities are more expensive, the local newspaper is just okay, the shopping is less convenient and the house and property we’re moving to are not as nice, at least not yet.
We didn’t move for all reasons that Those In Charge tell you people leave the Cape.
In our mid-70’s, we are leaving a comfortable home, established relationships and familiar territory. We are not young people who are migrating for better jobs or more affordable housing.
Rather, we left because after 12 years for Hubby and 21 years for me, it still felt that we never had a common understanding with most of the people who live here.
It was like being misinterpreted because you don’t speak the language or “get” the punchline of in-jokes.
Admittedly, we don’t share a common background with a substantial number of people who live in Mashpee or for that matter, the Cape. In spite of Barnstable County’s allegedly liberal political leanings, being “not the same as” was an impediment to acceptance.
We hope our new town will be more welcoming of diversity, whether it’s ancestral, religious, political or philosophical. On paper at least, it seems to be.
We will miss the good people we’ve met and the Tribal Leadership’s positive influence on the whole community.