{"id":1916,"date":"2011-02-12T10:34:33","date_gmt":"2011-02-12T15:34:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/wp\/?p=1916"},"modified":"2011-02-12T10:34:33","modified_gmt":"2011-02-12T15:34:33","slug":"our-deal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/?p=1916","title":{"rendered":"Our Deal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m beginning to understand why the relationship between husband and wife is pretty much off limits to everyone else.<\/p><p>The fact is, it&#8217;s a contract and probably the most restrictive and complicated I for one have ever been party to.<\/p><p>It&#8217;s pretty specific: we have a responsibility to stick with each other, regardless of circumstances: sickness, poverty, and the general category of &#8220;the worse.&#8221;<\/p><p>There&#8217;s no bailout provision, no golden parachute, no time-limited NDA, no agreement to terminate for non-performance.<\/p><p>We could ruin each other, financially and emotionally, and the only thing keeping us from doing that really are the bonds of affection and conscience.<\/p><p>Peter is the only one whose input I&#8217;ve actively solicited because he&#8217;s the only other person besides Ron and me with skin in the game.<\/p><p>For everyone else, it&#8217;s a &#8220;mind your own business.&#8221;<\/p><p>I believe Ron had to draw a line in the sand this week with one of his closest friends.<\/p><p>At least, I hope he did and that the friend doesn&#8217;t try to scuttle us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m beginning to understand why the relationship between husband and wife is pretty much off limits to everyone else.The fact is, it&#8217;s a contract and probably the most restrictive and complicated I for one have ever been party to.It&#8217;s pretty &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/?p=1916\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1916","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1916","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1916"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1916\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1916"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1916"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1916"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}