{"id":14974,"date":"2019-01-26T08:14:34","date_gmt":"2019-01-26T13:14:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/?p=14974"},"modified":"2019-01-26T08:14:34","modified_gmt":"2019-01-26T13:14:34","slug":"internalized-nomadic-notion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/?p=14974","title":{"rendered":"Internalized Nomadic Notion"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>From <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/magnetic-partners\/201104\/why-adoptees-need-find-their-biological-parents\">Psychology Today<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I can say\u2014after interviewing several of them over the years\u2014that many of us have  trouble feeling completely comfortable wherever we are\u2014no matter how welcomed we  may be. At times our discomfort can manifest in distancing, indifference, or  even rudeness, but we usually don&#8217;t intend to insult anybody. We just seem to  have an internalized nomadic notion that we don&#8217;t belong anywhere in particular.  Even when we do settle somewhere we often work our asses off to prove our  worthiness\u2014just in case anyone gets any ideas about putting us back up for\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/basics\/adoption\">adoption<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From Psychology Today:&#8220;I can say\u2014after interviewing several of them over the years\u2014that many of us have trouble feeling completely comfortable wherever we are\u2014no matter how welcomed we may be. At times our discomfort can manifest in distancing, indifference, or even &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/?p=14974\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14974"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14975,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14974\/revisions\/14975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecapeblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}